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Willpower: Please, get me some!
Many people who honestly want to quit smoking
just cannot get past their overwhelming desire to puff on a cigarette. Why? Because most people do not know of an effective method of using their own
natural willpower to resist the urge to smoke because their willpower skills are
weak.
We all have willpower. You use your willpower everyday. Wouldn't it be great if
your could put your willpower to work to help you quit smoking PERMANENTLY?
What is willpower?
Willpower is your mind's ability to TAKE CONTROL of the decisions
that you make about your personal actions. Willpower helps us to control our choices and
override basic lower-level desires, such as in the case of choosing not to smoke
in spite of our body's craving for nicotine
after quitting smoking.
Is willpower is a REAL thing?
It is ABSOLUTELY real. Using your willpower means using your mind to make decisions that override what
your body craves. Willpower guides your ability to make high-level
thinking decisions that override your lower-level body urges.
We all use willpower everyday. For example, if you go into a candy
shop, and you are hungry, do you grab at the sweets and ravenously fill your mouth? Of course you
don't. It is your willpower that helps you control the amount of candy you purchase and
also controls the time at which you will consume the candy. Your body desires
sweets, but your mind has control over your body and is the final
determining factor over how much and when you will consume the candy.
So . . . willpower is a measure of your mental determination to make intelligent
FREE WILL decisions that guide your physical actions over your lower-level desires.
Willpower is innate in
all of us. The PROBLEM with willpower is that it lets you (your higher
level common sense knowledge) down too easily sometimes. When you
feel that your willpower is
WEAK, you very easily give in to temptation and you may feel that you are unable to
carry out personal goals and objectives that require some amount of physical self
control. Let's say that you have been very good with your diet, but
suddenly you are offered a very sweet dessert and you GIVE IN to your long-term
higher-level decision not to eat sweets. It is this feeling of wanting to GIVE
IN that makes the idea of using willpower difficult to accept because we FEAR
that if we rely upon our willpower, we will FAIL. So rather than fail we buy
into the smoking cessation drug HYPE. In other words, don't rely on yourself.
Instead rely on a drug. That way, if it fails, you didn't fail, the drug did.
More on that later. ;-)
Why does the concept of using willpower seem awkward?
It is easy to be confused about what willpower is. When
you are asked about your willpower you may have an UNCERTAIN answer since your
willpower experiences may have been both weak and strong. It is normal to have
an inconsistent willpower ability. At times your willpower might be strong, such
as when you are on a diet and really doing a great job of eating the right foods
and losing weight. At other times you may have experienced your willpower being
weak such as when you succumbed to the desire to eat the wrong foods. Although
your willpower may have been strong when you started that diet, it may have
turned weak when you ended it. This is normal. We all make willpower decisions every
day. How well you succeed when confronted with a willpower decision is an
indication of one's willpower strength at THAT EXACT MOMENT, not an indication of
your overall ability or inability to possess willpower and use it to achieve
your goals.
Is your willpower defective?
Asking the question to the average visitor to Neversmokeagain.com, "Do
you have strong willpower or weak willpower?" most would say WEAK
willpower. Why is this? Is it because they have willpower which is
DEFECTIVE? Is the willpower portion of their brains functioning abnormally? Is there something physically
wrong with their willpower? No, of course not. The problem is that the typical person has
POOR/UNTRAINED willpower skills. Don't assume that because you had an
unsuccessful experience using your willpower skills in the past that you
have WEAK willpower. That is simply an incorrect conclusion. You just need
to enhance your willpower SKILLS.
Why is willpower considered a dirty word?
Search around and you may find that some psychology professionals decry
the use of willpower claiming that it doesn't exist and that it is unfair to
people to hold them to a willpower standard of success and failure. Sorry,
Dr. Phil, but you are just plain wrong on this one. The problem is that
society seems unable to comprehend that we can be taught WILLPOWER SKILLS.
Its not hocus pocus. Its real. The use of willower is the NUMBER ONE method
of quitting smoking. I did it that way and millions more have done it as
well. Willpower is a behavioral skill that can be learned and improved!!!
How can we use willpower more effectively?
The question of whether you possess willpower is silly. Of course, everyone has willpower.
The real question is how effectively YOU are able to CONSISTENTLY utilize your
willpower at any given moment. For some, achieving positive change through willpower comes
more naturally. Others
may find it more difficult. Whether you need willpower training or not depends
on your personal behavioral habits. No two people are alike and there are probably as
many reasons why some seem better able to use willpower than others than there
are people who smoke.
Can smokers
who are more susceptible to moments of WEAK willpower learn to consistently enhance their willpower
skills and
then use willpower in a manner that will truly help them end a smoking habit?
The answer is YES.
Willpower CAN work. I am going to help
you strengthen your willpower SKILLS. Changing one's approach to using willpower can mean the difference
between success or failure when quitting smoking. While it
is true that some people seem to be better able to use their willpower than others, there
ARE some simple things that you can do that will augment the effectiveness of your
use of willpower to quit smoking. If you feel that the strength of your willpower is
weak, you CAN do things that
will enhance it and make it stronger and more effective. You
just need a better approach to quitting smoking that will help you take advantage of
your natural willpower ability.
You
CAN quit smoking by using your own willpower. Lots of people use willpower to
quit smoking. It is the most common method of quitting smoking. Willpower WILL help you succeed. People that use willpower to quit smoking are just like you.
If they can do it, so can you. BELIEVE IT!
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